Shes busy today but asked what my plans are. is it possible we meet after she's done?
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I asked "What are your plans for today" and she says she is going to lay out at the pool at her hotel.
I feel like I can get her out after she's done since it won't be too late, so then I soft closed her:
Me: "Do you like wine?"
Her: Why are you gonna buy some for me?
Me: "Sure. We should split a bottle of wine on my balcony"
Her: Ok well what are your plans today?
How do I finish this close? My goal is to meet her after she's free, but I don't want to say it like that. Might come across as too needy.
What would you say to show that I want us to meet up later in the evening when we are both free?
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Dog, don't be overthinking it. Just offer a time that works for you. "I'm going to be finishing up work, I should be free after 8"
16 Posts (+10), 56 Cmts (+17)
She responded saying "Are you inviting me to your place? This is the first time we're meeting"
Should I just own it and say "Yes, I have a bottle of wine we can split together" and then see if she agrees? I prefer she just comes over for wine that's why instead of having to meet at a bar. At least try until I know it's a deal breaker and then if she suggests a place outsideI will meet her outside instead.
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"Finishing up some work, and then meeting you later for that vino."
16 Posts (+10), 56 Cmts (+17)
Yup that worked very well but now she responded with another test. she knows im clearly inviting her over, but she asks:
"Are you inviting me to your place? This is the first time we're meeting"
What should I respond with?