Just chat for now. Build comfort. Say something like “Lol. So give me the basics. Any crazy ex bfs? Tattoos? Piercings? Jail time?”

After this you can ask her if she likes wine & go for the soft close if things are vibing nicely

"It's okay. We'll be that really old couple in walmart on the electric scooters annoying all the workers there asking prices on donuts and milk"

"I was waiting on you to message me" is a bit of a needy reply and also completely unnecessary as that's just how Bumble works.
Maybe continue with something on her working out. "Still keeping in shape then?" or something along those lines