So we have been seeing each other for a couple weeks now. Met 4 times, had only homedates so far. Had sex everytime and it was very gpod everytime. For her also. I even slept at hers and she at mine. Were supposed to meet yesterday but she said she can’t make it today since she has so much studying left to do, but only after i wanted to confirm the time on the day of the date. After she responded i said: „alternative?“. No answer from her after 24 hours.
I know i have to wait at least 48 hours but is the „strategy“ different than with new girls you haven’t met yet? What should i do if she doesn’t answer. Also she flaked like 5 times already which is like50%. Should i pullback a bit in case she still wants to link?
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This is normal typical female behavior. They pullback around the 2-4 week mark to test your interest level to see if you 'need' them or just 'want' them. It's a subconscious thing women do without even knowing. I wouldnt sweat it one bit. Word of advice for you. Unless you see yourself wanting to go long term with the girl I wouldnt advise sleeping over at hers or yours. Text her the Ryan Gosling meme in 48 hours or "Yo sexy" or something like that. Dont stress.
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i would need to see the screenshot, but most likely she just forgot to respond. give her time