sexual performance

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i recently lost my virginity, have had sex 7 times to date. how long are men expected to last in bed? i feel like as soon as i start thrusting hard i cum. from the time you start thrusting how long are you guys able to last without supplements. i tried going slower but they don't seem to be into it as much. typically i help girls finish by fingering or oral.

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avilench . Avatar

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Generally speaking, cumming really fast isn't gonna give a girl a great sexual experience. However, their are numerous things you can do. I also have this problem myself for a while. When I lost my viriginity I lasted about 10 seconds. First & most obvious is to simply fuck her again, after you bust. For some reason, most guys think you only have one shot at it. But that's not true. If I know I'm gonna bust super fast, I might just literally blame it on the girl and say "Your pussy is too good. You're gonna make me cum way too fast & then I'm gonna have to fuck you again after this" I'll literally say something like that during sex. Most of the time a girl gets turned on by the idea that you can't help yourself because she's turning you on that much. So the simplest solution is to simply fuck her again after you bust a nut when your dick is less sensitive and you can last a lot longer.

Secondly, you can alternate between sex & eating her pussy. This is something I'll always do when I feel myself close to cumming and want to make the experience last longer. I'll pull out and eat her out while my dick calms down. Then, after a minute or two I'll go back to fucking to her. Then after a minute or two I'll do the exact same thing. This is good for the girl because it feels like one long sexual experience, while for you you're able to "calm your dick down"for a few minutes.

Another huge game changer. It literally makes you last so much longer. Honestly, when I'm sometimes on Kratom I don't wind up cumming at all. Even after an hour of vigorous sex. In my opinion it also makes the sex better.

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i can last longer if i take it slow too, but i feel like the girls enjoy when you go harder/faster which makes me cum fast.

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avilench . Avatar

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That's a common misconception man. Most girls don't actually enjoy getting jack hammered for a long period of time like they do in porno's. Slow & deep is very enjoyable for women.

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T Rex Avatar

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I can last quite a long time, and I credit that to being in good shape, eating a healthy vegan diet, and having a strong mind connection with my dick. What this means is when I start feeling myself approaching ejaculation, I pull out, take a second for my dick to calm down, and flip the girl to a different position, thus stimulating different areas of my dick. I can't last as long if I just stay in one position so change it up. Hope this helps mate.

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yea i experimented with going slow or stopping but then the girl loses her flow, so then i go for the strategy of cumming as many times i can until i lose my erection

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yea the sex including foreplay is much longer i'm just talking about the thrusting, i keep having to finish them off with fingering or oral

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Enrique B Avatar

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I think we all have this when we start. Practice "Edging" that helps, once you get that down, learn your oral skills. My gf turned me to a website online where girls teach mean how to please them. Long story short, every girl has a different way to stimulate her G spot, so it's best to ask, as you do it and learn what she likes, that will probably be applicable to other girls, but possibly not everyone.

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what website is that

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Enrique B Avatar

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All right, so I had to ask my GF. Posting this here since I also got a message through the inbox, so this might save someone the trouble. Literally impossible to google.

www.omgyes.com

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Enrique B Avatar

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I don’t recall off the top of my head. It was a paid membership with videos. If you really interested, I can ask my gf, I’ll see her tomorrow, so hit me up if you don’t find what you are looking for.

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