Sexting Cute Latina Chick, but she flakes on day of date

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So I get the # from this cute latina chick on Hinge and texting goes pretty good. We had the date today but she flakes because of work (not sure if this is legitimate).

The place I send for us to meet is in downtown. She loves across the water north from downtown. I live towards the south so downtown would be in the middle.

Where did I mess up? And also how should I respond?
Thinking of just texting "alright" and then re engage in a couple days. Or text her "breaking my heart (name)"

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sirdanny v Avatar

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To be honest you setting up logistics could’ve been a bit better. But that’s how you learn & get better. Next time make sure she definitely agrees to the idea of meeting up.

Just be cool about it & say “no worries I want you on your A game”

Let a few 2-3 days pass by then reopen her with “yo sexy” or “hola linda” then vibe with her a little & proceed again with “what’s your schedule like this week” or “pick a day you’re free” hope that helps 👌🏻

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Sorry I missed a screenshot but we did agree to meet at 9.

And yeah right after I sent the logistics of where to meet, I knew it wasn't a good one. I haven't set up a proper"grab a drink" date before. I usually pickup the girl but this time I wasn't down to drive quite far to pick her lol

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Well the buildup was good IMO.
I don't see any mistakes really. She seemed to be down one day before so it just shows how quickly she changes her mind which is kind of a red flag, specially given she didn't try to reschedule or at least hint at it.

Some girls are time wasters (many of them actually) but some persistence can come a long way. Just be cool and be playful in your texting, avoid any butthurt vibes, then try again. If she flakes again and doesn't seem to make up for it, just next her

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sirdanny v Avatar

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True... but women will always have the prerogative to change their minds

I wouldn’t be to quick to next them & erase their numbers to quick. Keep them for future re engagement

That’s just ego that gets in the way. You’d be surprised how some women will actually hit you up out of nowhere when they get horny 👌🏻

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avilench . Avatar

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Text her the breaking my heart text now

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Ended up just texting her "no worries" around 11pm last night.

What would you do next? Re open tomorrow?

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avilench . Avatar

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Wait a few days and then re open

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