Rudeness Upfront

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J

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J

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So, this girl added me on Snapchat. I don't know her at all, So I open her and She gives me some shit for an opener that you wouldn't expect it from. How should I deal with this? Takeaways maybe?

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avilench . Avatar

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Why did you open her without seeing what she looks like?

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Max Fox Avatar

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Back it up... you're saying this girl added you on Snapchat, you don't know her, you didn't initiate, you didn't add her first? How did she find you? Forgive me, I'm unfamilar with Snapchat

Because what you're saying and this conversation doesn't add up. You're bringing all the thirst and she's bringing the "who the fuck are you why are you talking to me boi" energy. Your opening message here should have been "do I know you". Your reply to "umm" should have been "umm?", instead of allowing disrespect. Your reply now should probably be "show me".

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Sam Miller Avatar

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Sam Miller Avatar

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Shit I accidentally deleted my comment. Ok well let me rexplain - It seems to me you're using the lines here with no context or knowledge in terms of when or how to use them. Snapchat isn't like tinder or Instagram where you need an opener to get the conversation going, I've found the most success by just snapping back and forth with a girl (good photos with decent lighting, none of that forehead/ceiling shit).

She isn't giving you a surprising amount of shit because she literally doesn't know you. She could have just gone through her quick adds and added you because your name sounded hot (yes this happens a LOT more than you'd think).

Snap back and forth with her, get to know her and crack some inappropriate jokes, get a fun flirty vibe going and escalate from there. Most of the common-sense rules (double texting, calibration etc.) still apply but no need to treat snap exactly like tinder and do the same exact thing because you're going to end up in situations like this one.

I agree with Max here, challenge her back a little and see if you can get some banter going. I would go with "Prove me right and show me then" or something - you don't want to come off as creepy. You could also just try and move things forward like I said some banter/qualification - ie: "Fair enough, you're not a basic white girl tho are you?"

Hope this wasn't too harsh and goodluck mate.

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