Responding to “Not a coffee date kind of girl”
8 Comments
8 Cmts
3y ago *
SEE COMMENTS (I’m taking too long to respond)
How’s: “Let’s split a bottle of wine back at my place then” or do I need to ask if she likes wine first?
Perhaps meet up to grab snacks/wine to head back to my place?
My spidey senses tell me she’s looking for a dinner date/free meal lol. That shit is not going
ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!
L
4 Posts (+0), 35 Cmts (+21)
"so picky haha do you like wine at least?"
If she says dinner date "You have to earn that come on now. For our 3rd date sure dinner it is but for now lets just split a nice bottle of wine"




15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
I would first say “let’s split a bottle of wine” don’t include the back at your place yet. If she agrees to the wine, then ask what her schedule is... then from there you start getting into logistics, you can suggest your place. This would be more effective.
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
I’m guessing I say: “Yes. Shoot me your number & we’ll sort the details”
Then ask her schedules & follow protocol?
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15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
She seems like she won’t be receptive to coming over but I would try “yes, a date on my romantic balcony” if you’re feeling a little more straight forward/ballsy.
But maybe just simply say “yes, a date”
I wouldn’t even add the number yet until she agrees to your soft close which she hasnt