Background
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Two girls opened me at a bar. I was solo. Girl #1 was interested and her wing woman was doing a great job of making us connect. Luckily I found Girl #1 attractive. Ended up pulling both of them to my apt walking distance away.
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Yes I was physical with Girl #1 (arm holding, hugging, peck on cheeks/lips)
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No, I did not lay. Girl #1 was driving her friend and they lived like 25 mins away. I should've gotten one of them the Uber but parking sucks in Downtown Dallas.
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I exchanged info (number) and they both started following me on Instagram.
Next Day (Saturday)
- I open with the gosling meme
- She replies with a gif and a happy Saturday
- I ask how her day is going (you frame)
- She replies with "omg busy day at work, yours???" (seems like a decent investment response)
- I respond with "at the gym getting ready for our hot date" (always doing something awesome)
- She: "Is that right" with a winky face emoji
- Me: (trying to be a bit sexual) - "as long as you behave" with a smirk emoji.
She doesn't respond. Its now been 72 hours since my last text.
QUESTION/ADVICE
- Should I respond by stacking on top of my last text saying "its ok, you can still be naughty" or should I ignore and reopen with "hola linda" or a funny meme?
Side note
- She religiously views my Instagram stories (I post 10x a day, mostly memes to draw up some engagement from my audience).
- She's viewed them everyday.
I'm actually having almost the exactly same problem as you except I already setup the date with the girl. I feel like for some girls the "getting fit for our date" might be a turn off.
Bumping because I commented on a bunch of posts and pushed my own thread down :)
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
I wouldn’t push any further neither pull... just re-engage with Happy (X-ray)or hola Linda (if she’s Latina)

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)
update:
I just dropped a "hola linda" and she responded immediately :)