Re-engagement / Follow up NO REPLY advice

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Michael Styles Avatar

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Michael Styles Avatar

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)

Background

  • Two girls opened me at a bar. I was solo. Girl #1 was interested and her wing woman was doing a great job of making us connect. Luckily I found Girl #1 attractive. Ended up pulling both of them to my apt walking distance away.

  • Yes I was physical with Girl #1 (arm holding, hugging, peck on cheeks/lips)

  • No, I did not lay. Girl #1 was driving her friend and they lived like 25 mins away. I should've gotten one of them the Uber but parking sucks in Downtown Dallas.

  • I exchanged info (number) and they both started following me on Instagram.

Next Day (Saturday)

  • I open with the gosling meme
  • She replies with a gif and a happy Saturday
  • I ask how her day is going (you frame)
  • She replies with "omg busy day at work, yours???" (seems like a decent investment response)
  • I respond with "at the gym getting ready for our hot date" (always doing something awesome)
  • She: "Is that right" with a winky face emoji
  • Me: (trying to be a bit sexual) - "as long as you behave" with a smirk emoji.

She doesn't respond. Its now been 72 hours since my last text.

QUESTION/ADVICE

  • Should I respond by stacking on top of my last text saying "its ok, you can still be naughty" or should I ignore and reopen with "hola linda" or a funny meme?

Side note

  • She religiously views my Instagram stories (I post 10x a day, mostly memes to draw up some engagement from my audience).
  • She's viewed them everyday.
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Michael Styles Avatar

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)

update:

I just dropped a "hola linda" and she responded immediately :)

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E

57 Posts (+12), 282 Cmts (+81)

I'm actually having almost the exactly same problem as you except I already setup the date with the girl. I feel like for some girls the "getting fit for our date" might be a turn off.

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Michael Styles Avatar

4 Posts (+6), 48 Cmts (+17)

Bumping because I commented on a bunch of posts and pushed my own thread down :)

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C

25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)

I wouldn’t push any further neither pull... just re-engage with Happy (X-ray)or hola Linda (if she’s Latina)

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