First of all, sorry for my bad English.

This dating dynamic is extremely unfair to men.

Apart from having to work hard to have enough money to pay them everything, pay the ride, pay the food, pay the hotel, pay the condoms (usually here in Mexico, that's what is expected of men, to pay everything); we need to be fit, have certain status, dress well, have an interesting life.

And if that's not enough, we have to make "dating rituals" (game), just to keep her interested enough to answer us messages or accept our date. We need to think about special messages, timing, logistics; while they, the only thing they have to do is say yes or no.

If we don't reply In some hours or days, she's lost, while she may stop responding for whatever time she wants.. and nothing happens.

And even if we have done all that, and we are finally dating her, we have to be clever about advancing sexually with her. And it's very annoying, because it seems as she doesn't want to get sexual. Most of the time it seems as she is avoiding it, but at the same time, if you don't advanced sexually, she gets bored! So you have to be insisting, until the doors open.

At the end, when the man is finally able to put his pp inside, finally the woman most likely would start consider him as another equal human being. When you finally fucked her, you can now relax, and be your real self..

Sorry for this rant, but I'm very frustrated about the fact, that if a man says the wrong thing, he simply gets ghosted..

Where's love? Is this love? All I see is high narcissism and lazynesss from woman's part, and pure competition from men's part..

Honestly I'm just considering giving up on high value women, and just focus on low value women. At least that's how I feel like there we be something closer to what we all consider love to be.