Yo Alex and Dave,
what's your opinion about using something like "Hey Name, do you know what's interesting about your pictures?" as an opener and then just comment on one of her pictures so she knows it's personal? Works like a click bait and makes her curious
I've tried "Hey Hottie ;)" and "Hey cutie ;)" but both aren't perceived too well some girls even deleted me right after (how fucking prude must they be?). Can't use hey trouble because it's not a positive word in Germany. Also those openers make it harder to actually start a conversation because girls usually reply with Hi or Hello.
On the other hand they're slightly screening because Hottie is quite sexual while making some comment about their pictures doesn't neccarily screen. Except if u say something like "You look like a good mix of cute and sexy" but that would be the 2nd line
I have a German friend who just opens with "Hey Cutie ;)" as a first, then "I want to sleep with you, BUT.." as a second and once she replies "I want to have pizza after" as a third message. Some girls react positively to it and he ends up sleeping with them. But when I tried the exact same thing I kept getting negative reactions or girls deleted me so I think it's too obvious and makes girls feel like a slut

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It's not bad, I can imagine a high percentage of girls responding to it because of curiosity, but the big issue that I can see is that if you don't have a good follow up, then it could backfire. Meaning, if you can't think of something actually unique and interesting about her pics, you're going to lose points. I prefer just straight up telling her what you like about her pics. One way that has worked for a lot of guys is "swiped right for (insert some characteristic)"
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How would you know if the girl actually has that characteristic? Yeah curiosity was my point, then saying something unique about one picture plus a compliment like for example "I like your Ying Yang Necklace. And they're confusing me.. you look like a mix of cute and sexy"
That worked well once for me, because it showed the girl I actually looked at their profile.
What do you think about the rest I wrote?
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You would know because you see it in her pics. For example "Swiped right for sexy tattoos", "Swiped right for possible nice booty" "swiped right for the cute selfies", etc
I think your approach is more complex than it needs to be, and I'm a huge fan of keeping things simple. But if it works for you, then role with it