Quick question. With my profile, I rarely get away with framing dates to the house, because I attract more relationship type girls. I am looking for something long term, but of course I also like to have sex. What I've been doing is simply scheduling a date at a boba tea place, chicks love those for some reason, and of the vibe is up I'll ask her what she has going on after that. If she's free and tells me she has her own place, I'll basically invite myself back to her house and we'll fuck. I'm wondering, though, in case I catch the girls off guard, if it would be better to suggest going back to her place before we even meet up (because I don't have my own right now.)

Basically, my thoughts would be that I get to the soft close "we should grab a cup sometime" and when she agrees to that, say "cool, and if the chemistrys good we can hang out after". Would it be a good idea to include this after or should I continue just taking them for coffee and proposing we go home in the middle of the date? And how would you improve the line? I haven't tested this much yet so I'm curious