Profile Examination

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Want to make sure my profile is as good as I can get.
Any ones I should remove/keep? Please go ahead and judge my profile!
Thanks for your insights!

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Aaron Johnson Avatar

10 Posts (+141), 139 Cmts (+107)

I'll caveat this with the fact that I'm not an expert at Tinder photos, but here are my two cents:

  1. A few of these come off as "nice guy" teetering on the edge of "gay guy", no offense. Particularly the photo with the camera and the one of you with the girls.
  2. The leather jacket photo where you are standing just doesn't stand out at all. Leather jacket should inspire you to look like a badass, you're just kind of there and it's super posed.
  3. The Venice picture (I think that's Venice?) is ok, but you look kind of scrawny in it (the short sleeves show off your arms, and specifically, your lack of muscle definition on them).
  4. The other leather jacket picture is your best of the bunch. You could probably use this. But the way you've positioned your jaw is not optimal - this is a good thing to learn for taking photos. Here's a video that really explains this, I've skipped ahead a bit for the "TLDR" version of it: https://youtu.be/Qe3oJnFtA_k?t=426
  5. Your bio could is missing any sort of "hook" to spike the girl's interest, it just feels a little generic. Ways you could improve this would include going sexually polarizing ("Dominant") or giving her things to qualify herself on ("A great booty is my biggest weakness")
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Man, thanks a ton for your remarks and for taking time to write it up. Also, for the video about how to position the Jaw, I'll take that into account for next times.
This makes me wonder tho, is it that wrong having a photo that looks a little posed? Where do you draw the line?

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Aaron Johnson Avatar

10 Posts (+141), 139 Cmts (+107)

It's a good question, and again, not a topic I'm really an expert on. I'd wait for someone like Alex to weigh in.

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Big Daddy Avatar

16 Posts (+66), 242 Cmts (+331)

Do a photoshoot. Convey far more masculinity. Sexual charisma. Dominance. Avoid friendly, feminine and pics with women (girls will know you've been friendzoned by them. They see through it)

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Big Daddy Avatar

16 Posts (+66), 242 Cmts (+331)

Next photo: "I get friendzoned a lot"
The 3rd, just a terrible photo that is far from the camera.
The 4th, way too sweet, way too harmless. Though it's not an awful pic I think you should go with a theme like the 5th photo.
The 5th, MUCH better. I would have more photos taken similar to this one but not actually use this one. But atm it's the only one you can use.
I know you cannot see without your glasses, but you'd look far better without them. Take pics without the glasses if possible.

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Big Daddy Avatar

16 Posts (+66), 242 Cmts (+331)

The first one has got to go. Not to be mean, but you come off way too feminine and way too friendly/nice guy. Confidence, dominance, displaying that you are a sexual man and sexual threat. You're the guy that could fuck them well but also showing other positive and high value traits is very big. You aren't optimizing your matches with a photo like that.
I understand not every man is a dominant and sexual man, but you've got to portray a bit of it at least if you actually want to get laid and a lot of matches. Way too feminine and friendly.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Overall, I think your photos need a redo. the 3rd one is decent and the best of your 4. however, that won't work as the main. The one with you and the chicks might be able to work as well, but not the as main either.
Take a look at my guide and shoot some new pics. I think it will make a big difference. :)
https://www.playingfire.com/tinder-profile-picture-guide-and-tips/

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