I went on two first dates over the past two weeks and they both went really well. She was engaged in the conversation, was not boring. Was touching and all. The issue I run into is closing. But also these girls clearly are looking for a relationship (now I know that they just say that and will have one night stands) but the frame that I came into it with is "Lets go out on a first date and see how it goes" After the first date I followed up with "I had a good time, let me know when your free, comment", She replied saying she enjoyed it to and after another one or two messages they did not answer, granted it is the weekend and they were busy as they mentioned I can understand why they did not reply. MY question is should I follow up or wait until they reply to my text. Also I am looking for some guidance on how to close or to gauge whether or not they are not trying to go on a second date because they know it could lead to sex/intamcy?