You guys got any advice for what to do on phone calls? Just recently had one and I have the feeling it could’ve been better. It was a short getting to know each other call, but I wonder if there’s anything to do like with text game?
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I actually have a full video of this , its called how to talk to a girl on the phone. It has a live recording of me talking. Check it out you might find it helpful
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Gracias senor! I’ll study it now. Your videos have helped me a lot with texting. I still need to work on it but it seriously is an improvement from before
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This is kind of general advice, but like text game, keep the 10 factors in mind, but most importantly: purposefulness. Don't stray. Is the phone call about qualifying her? Logistical? Building comfort to overcome any objections? Stuff like that.
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If it’s logistical it’s straightforward. What if it’s qualifying, building comfort, or just getting to know each other. Does it vary from text game or is it the same thing??
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Well, this is under the assumption that you're trying to have sex with her. That's the ultimate purpose and the phone call is a means to an end. Keep that in mind: means to an end. If you're end goal is not sex though, adjust accordingly. But "getting to know each other" is basically qualifying or building comfort.
You are "getting to know" if you want to have sex with her, by qualifying her--you would ask the questions you want--or whatever--until she's qualified. Once done, phone is call over.
She wants to "get to know you" so that she is comfortable sleeping with you. Either because she doesn't want to feel like a slut, make sure you're not a creep, further asses your value, etc. In that case, you may need to dig a little to find out what her objections are, but she may just screen you/give you shit tests without you having to prompt, in which case, just pass. Once she's satisfied, phone call is over.
That's it.
Now, I do know that sometimes people (especially long term couples) talk on the phone just to talk. They enjoy each others company, miss each other, wanna connect somehow, or whatever. But I don't suggest getting into the frame so early. Even if your goal is not just having sex with her, you're going to get much more attachment and investment from her (varies) once you do have sex, so I recommend making that your primary and immediate objective.