Yeah go for the soft close here, you gave up your frame a little though when you said "Or shall I" - I would have rengaged and vibed with her some more to get investment etc.

Right now I would say "Why don't we split a bottle of wine soon and we can exchange all sorts of secrets:)"

She seems pretty into you. Go for it bro.

Nice line about the subtle things in her pics that give away her being a sub, btw.