Not Closing Dates Advice
11 Posts (+3), 34 Cmts (+20)
i’ve had 4 first dates (all with different girls from hinge) straight to my apartment in the last week. all 4 i’ve framed as wine dates on my romantic balcony. all 4 have gotten to the point where we are starting to get physical (playing with their hair, touching their thigh/neck, hugging them from behind, making out) on my balcony and then all 4 have left after coming up with an excuse. ie “need to go check on my dog”, “you’re not getting laid tonight”, “I have an early morning”. “I should go”. any tips on what I can be doing to close?
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
It seems to me you’re are either over escalating too quickly which makes them uncomfortable and end u leaving or you’re doing something to creep them out. I think a big takeaway is to not seem thirsty if the girl feels this it’s a huge turn off.
11 Posts (+3), 34 Cmts (+20)
yeah clearly something is off. I think its my escalation. I have three more dates setup for this weekend all straight to the house. I'll try some of Davis' tips
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Sounds like likely something is off when you bring the chicks back. Maybe poor escalation or poor objection handling.