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536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
I feel like I could have said something a bit better than “Glad to hear”
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wait 2 days then "dw it's not a trick question" jan's right about getting her invested tho she seemed interested so hindsight is 20/20
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I have a different perspective. Don't think too hard now, sent 2-7 days after no response, has worked once for me out of maybe 20 uses. And that person was a time waster who I never met IRL.
I don't think these takeaways are that good, sorry. They're more obvious than perhaps is thought, around here. Or maybe it works with 22 year old chicks, but not 38 year old chicks. But they almost never work for me.
What does work for me is reengaging fresh, disregarding the previous couple texts, and adding/offering value. That has worked multiple times recently with chicks I have seen or ended up seeing IRL.
Not trying to create division, I just genuinely disagree and those are my real time results.
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
That’s interesting. I can’t count how many time it’s worked for me but most girls I match with are in the 18 - 30 range.
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To salvage I’d say “Don’t think too hard now” but preventative I’d banter a bit more, not endlessly, then soft close with “You and I should have a drink soon.”
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"dont think too hard now" overall it was ok, u just went for a close too fast.
With the last text i would make Life Skills proud and genuinely be interested, asking what she did today to have such a lovely day
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Lmao I’m sure it would. It seemed like she was already invested in the idea of the date so I thought the best move was to jump on it.
Yeah if she doesn’t respond I’ll use a takeaway
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
Yea she was def into u and was open to go out but not this soon.
I would've just said "glad to hear, what did u do today? im sure your weekend is gonna be even more lovely after a romantic date with me"
To get her investment up even more before going for a hard wine close