No investment from her for Date2 after close at Date 1
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6y ago
J
4 Posts (+2), 26 Cmts (+2)
Hey,
so I met this girl in DG. Closed her IG. Invited her to a party.
Pulled her and closed.
- She is quite hot and active on Tinder. Saw that when waking up next to her haha.
- I sent her your choking meme and tried to get some nice emotional response to close for round 2. She barely replies and
the last text she didnt even answer. - So my question here, how should I go about it and flip it around again?
Suggestion:
- be more real and send a voice message like: hey, i really liked hanging out with you the other night etc and want to see you again. (and then close her for another date etc.)
Thanks a lot for the help!! Merry Christmas.
Jojo
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Hmm to be honest based off her total lack of investment it seems like something Is off. She could have a boyfriend that she didn’t tell you about, could be wierd around sex, etc....Was the sex good? Did anything unusual happen?
4 Posts (+2), 26 Cmts (+2)
Hey man, thanks a lot for the help!!
Actually, super akward but during sex I got nose blood. In the Moment it was obv fucked up but I excused myself, we cleaned everything and fucked afterwards again so I wasn’t really worried about it. The next day we also went to a cafe and had breakfast and she also kissed me as well as we had sex again in the morning. So yeah, I don’t really know?!
The thing she mentioned was that she got heart broken once and probably has some trust issues and can’t or has a hard time to have feelings for someone as she is scared to get hurt again. (Some thoughts I have about it).
Should I leave it? Honestly I liked her a lot so would be sad to not bang her again etc
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Lol. It’s probably the trust issues. Shes worried about seeing you again
“Hey, Im going to be honest. I think you’re a cool girl and enjoyed our time together. I wanted to see you again and get to know you better, but if you’re not interested it’s ok”