No condom on first date
Do you guys ever go in without a condom on first date hookups? I've done this once only after asking the girl if she's clean and got tested recently. I'm wondering how many of you guys do this or do you always use condoms?
Never on a first date. To me if a girl easily agrees to giving up a condom then she’s done the same for other dudes and my risk goes up even more.
I know this is very irresponsible but I usually do. I don’t know why, I end up starting off with the condom, and then eventually the chick and I agree that the condom can fuck off.
Obviously no one really gives a shit in the moment, but it’s a miracle I haven’t had any STD or pregnancy scares yet. Definitely wrap it up, wherever possible.
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
All the time. Worst I got is herpes. Never had an outbreak but got tested for stds in my last physical and was just over the limit for testing positive for it
What do you mean over the limit? Isn't it either you have it or you don't?
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
You only test positive if you are over a certain viral load. You can have herpes and test negative multiple times if you are in remission. Most doctors don't even bother testing for herpes 1 or 2, most people have it
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
i use to do this quite often when i was younger but dont anymore, it all just comes down to how much risk are you okay with taking on, when i was younger and thought i was bullet proof i had no problem taking on the risk, me now having been on rigorous treatment for limes for over a year its really low and not worth it