Newbie to Tinder, critical feedback and be brutal pls
7 Posts (+8), 15 Cmts (+3)
Talking to this girl and others , can’t seem to get out of platonic convos or I’m missing something. Leave examples how I can redirect for lay, how to stop and where I’m being boring, and if waiting between text to not sound needy is on par. Gentlemen, start your engines.
4 Posts (+2), 49 Cmts (+26)
I mean that girl you were texting wanted to fuck. It was on you to go for the hard close and make specific plans at that point.
You're not a complete autist, but your texting is too goofy. Try and refrain from the paragraphs on mars and shit haha. You don't need to be more sexual though.
Also, the way you're going for the tea close isn't optimal.
This can be applied to tea, but what I do is guess what kinda drink the girl is into and ask her if she likes it. Wine if I can't guess.
Here's an exact transcript from a girl I banged last night:
(back and forth talking about her sport)
Me:Do you like wine
Her:"Yeah; wine's my fave (emoji)"
Me:Well you seem cool lets have some wine this wk
Her:"Lit! I think I'm mostly free Friday evening and all of Saturday. (emoji)"
Me:Cool we'll make plans whats your number
Her:(redacted, don't want you stealing my girl)















393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Brutal honesty... your text game is terrible. It is at the point, where it is literally killing your chances with every girl you talk to (from what I can see). The two biggest issues I see are :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F16tI29Jtb4
Check out this video man to get an idea of my text game. You'll see how simple it can be. Then, contrasted to what what you doing. I think that will help you moving forward.
There are bunch of other mistakes as well, but these two are definitely your biggest ones. If you can learn to keep things simple and pick up on queues that girls give you your results will drastically improve :)