Just started watching the videos a couple days ago. I am new to this scene and I'm generally a pretty serious and not particularly witty guy so this is way out of my comfort zone. I matched with this girl on OkCupid originally in december and we exhchanged a few messages and then she stopped replying. Yesterday I sent her the "a woman of few words I see" line and she replied saying "I honestly never get notifications on here lol". Told her to shoot me her number and we'd text, which she did.
Heres an excerpt from our texts. She told me she's free this weekend and confirmed she wants to meet. I'm trying to keep the playfulness up which is difficult for me. I used the "Nah, I hate sex" line which now I kinda feel like I could've said something different for that context, but not really sure what. It still seemed to work out though. On the last text she didn't reply to my thread "you'll have to find out on our date". I wasn't happy with that line when I sent it and I feel like I could've said something else instead to make it more sexual, but I don't know what. Any suggestions for the future? Thanks!
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Personally i wouldn’t recommend going to the cinema for a 1st date as you can’t really get to know them really. That being said if they haven’t updated the show times yet. If my be worth guessing a time and meet at a bar or coffee place 1st and then going to the cinema after if there’s chemistry
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You're doing fine for where you're at, many good suggestions in other comments
If you specifically had to have a reply for that exact slot? "Let's just say I'm an expert cuddler"
Please note that "you'll just have to find out ..." is universal code, in every aspect of life, for "I have no fucking idea and no plan so I'm pretending it's a surprise for you". Everyone knows this including you. That's why it's a shit line and you weren't happy with it
Even if it weren't so, no girl wants any surprises on a first meeting. Not knowing what to expect from a stranger is terrifying
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She looks fairly DTF. I think you could organize date at your place.
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