New to the Game and needs help
2 Posts (+1), 7 Cmts (+2)
Hello everyone, I'm new in this forums and I came here because I realised I fucked up an opportunity and I don't think I can get this girl interested again.
So, I am a 24-year-old virgin still living with my parents and I rarely go on dates. I tried Tinder and other apps and I haven't got any results. However, out of nowhere a girl messaged and we had a chat and managed to go out with her. Have to let you know I've only dated 2 girls in my life because I always felt like I don't deserve girls and I still live with my parents and I share a bed with one of my siblings so I wouldn't see myself inviting her to my house. Anyways, this is where the sad part comes.
So, I went out with her to a bar where I usually go so I'll feel comfortable. On the first date nothing happened, it was just a get to her. Then she messages me at night telling me she is sorry for being late etc.. and that she wants to hang out with me again.
On this day, I started searching videos on how to attract girls and that's how I found PWF. I used to watch RSD but they never got me anywhere.
We meet again on the second date, I took her to a bar again and went for a little walk afterwards and of course i did fucking nothing. The next day I didn't message her and she messaged me telling '' don't you want to talk to me again :( ''.
And anyway, we meet again for the third date. On the third date, she was showing more interest by getting closer to me and such. I saw the signals but for some reason, I was thinking there was a moment like in the fucking movies to go for the kiss
Guess what I did?
Fucking nothing, I went home so disappointed in myself that I have disappointed her. Can't believe how stupid I feel that she gave me three chances and did nothing.
I am now trying to get the fourth date to but of course, she is now being cold and telling me that she is busy.
I can understand that she feels like she's wasting her time with me now and I don't know if I have another chance to fix this. Because even my texting game has gone worsen when she started becoming cold and I don't want to continue fucking up my text game so I decided to find help
I can send you guys screenshots of how it's going and I would really love to get some help.
Thanks for your patience.
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
Welcome to PWF, let's get your life straightened out.
Dust off your Tinder profile, we need to get you on dates with 10 other women. There's no way this random chick is the best or only pussy you'll ever get. If you don't believe me, hit her up again after you've slept with 5 chicks and see. At the moment, forget about it.
Start sorting your head out, because in life you get what you believe you deserve. Remember you come from a long line of men, your father was a pussy slayer, your grandfather was a pussy slayer... now it's your turn.
Tell your sibling that they'll be taking some 3-hour walks in the near future, and tell your dad that you're working on his grandchild so some tips and encouragement would be great.
As a former virgin I can assure you it's a temporary condition
2 Posts (+1), 7 Cmts (+2)
I came here to improve so and ask for help from people who have experienced it so I'll have to believe in this community because I have no other choice.
''Start sorting your head out, because in life you get what you believe you deserve''
That's also something I struggle with, I always thought I don't deserve women just because I have some medical conditions etc...
So, let's start with my pile of trash Tinder profile. I've seen some PWF videos related to Tinder but I'm still with average photos and the bio is trash. I usually only post half body shots because I usually look really skinny. I should give you the link soon but I'm working on it again at this moment.
''Tell your sibling that they'll be taking some 3-hour walks in the near future, and tell your dad that you're working on his grandchild so some tips and encouragement would be great.''
Sadly I'm not that very close with my dad and we don't get along very well. I'm closer to my grandfather than my dad :/ maybe I hook up girls at my grandfather's house haha
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
I should give you the link soon but I'm working on it again at this moment
You need to provide raw materials, so you can get advice on what to put in, not just what to take out. Put all potential photos in a new post, plus draft bio text, and list your other high-value skills, interests, and achievements. If you draft up a profile, screenshot it. Many people including me will not follow Tinder links
Don't beat yourself up bud. We all have made those mistakes when we were beginners. It sounds like you're really overthinking things in the moment. I'd make sure to start working out and even some meditation exercises can help with those types of issues.
2 Posts (+1), 7 Cmts (+2)
True, I did start overthinking. I basically put her in pedestal and became needy after she started losing Interest.
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
Don't get stuck on one girl. Focus on your style, getting fit, and moving to your own place. Then everything will get easier.
9 Posts (+5), 16 Cmts (+13)
Dude! You’re in the right place! You sound exactly like how I was only a few years ago. Learn from your failures and use them as fuel to propel yourself further into game. Soon enough you’ll be smashing more ass than you can handle!
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Bro lol. The solution is something you already know. You gotta go for it. Coz otherwise, you just live with regrets. I'm honestly surprised that she gave you this many chances. Usually when you don't close on the first date, you won't get a second. I severely doubt she's going to give you another chance. Learn from your mistakes and move on
2 Posts (+1), 7 Cmts (+2)
What can i say I've got luck but got no balls. And I came here to find them haha