I don’t think this is going anywhere, have been stuck in this same rut where I open but can’t get bantering since there is no prev investment. What to do?
I assume there's been no response since that last message so I'll put in my two cents from there: I think you came (no pun intended) off a little strong in the beginning, especially after there wasn't much investment to begin with like you said. You also went for the meetup at a point of low investment which she obviously did not respond to. I like the takeaway you used, it got her to respond again, but they only work so well before the girl drops off again. I wouldn't say it's impossible to save the interaction, but you shot yourself in the foot a little with the over-investment and premature date setup. She looks like a cutie so she probably has a lot of guys 'competing' for her. If it were me, I'd maybe step back a little bit, try to banter a bit and build enough of an investment to go for the meetup again.
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I assume there's been no response since that last message so I'll put in my two cents from there: I think you came (no pun intended) off a little strong in the beginning, especially after there wasn't much investment to begin with like you said. You also went for the meetup at a point of low investment which she obviously did not respond to. I like the takeaway you used, it got her to respond again, but they only work so well before the girl drops off again. I wouldn't say it's impossible to save the interaction, but you shot yourself in the foot a little with the over-investment and premature date setup. She looks like a cutie so she probably has a lot of guys 'competing' for her. If it were me, I'd maybe step back a little bit, try to banter a bit and build enough of an investment to go for the meetup again.