Need Quick Tinder Sexualizing Advice

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Hey guys,

I watched Nitin's video with Surgical pickup and I'm using his sexualizing advice. Since Im a complete newbie, can someone help me close this one? THANKS in advance :)

My concern atm is how to build more comfort and not go for the meetup too fast, or should I just go for it?

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I personally don't like "what are you doing on here" lines -- what if she says just looking for friends. It's not the greatest frame to start off with. It's better to create the frame that she needs a booty massage.

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I do NOT like telling girls they have to "EARN IT" -- It just puts them on the defenses in most cases. If she wants a booty massage GREAT! Don't immediately put her on the defensive. I'd much rather you qualify her or get some more investment.

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M

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Great feedback, I was trying to be playful, good to know.

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M

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Thanks man!

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M

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UPDATE: I sent "Are you more of a soft or rough massage kind of girl?"

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M

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She responded with: "Starting soft and then getting more rough (angel emoji), what do you like?"

I'm not sure how sexual to take this before getting the number?

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M

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REAL TIME UPDATE: Just so you guys can see that I'm a sexting virgin haha!

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