Need help responding to this

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So I used the common "does this mean we're dating now" opener and got a response I'm honestly not sure how to respond to. Usually I'm met with more positive responses I can build off of but lately I've gotten a few "lol no's" and just now a "does it?" I'm really unsure on how to respond to these.

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If they say "lol no" that's a pretty negative bitchy response (like why did you even swipe right dude), "does it" has more possibilities (just agree and exaggerate, eg "yes you're moving in Monday babe, let's go get a puppy!"). To "lol no" I'd say something like, "good, I'm not looking for anything serious." And sidestep and vibe for longer if she's really worth it. Most times I'll just unmatch her time wasting ass.

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“It does, didn’t you read the fine print? “

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This.

I also think the response by her is positive. She's laughing. It's good. Play along and build a story out of it now.

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