Hey Guys,
Here is the background,
Met her strip club 2 years ago. She gave me a dance. Got her number. We chatted. Tried to get her to meet up before work but she said no due to a boyfriend at the time.
Now, saw her here, matched, and thought I got an easy in due to prior interaction.
I only recently watched the youtube vids so total novice. Should I let it die now, since this is the second time she didn't respond? If she wasn't interested at all why match at all?
Thanks
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41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)
Your texting her like youve fucked her before which you haven't. Move it over to text with a wine close if she doesn't want to come over for wine, do a public date. She just wants a pen pal imo. But I could be wrong. Try to make plans and see if shes down
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
the issue here is definitely your text game bro. Your coming off as way to much of a nice guy with no balls, the vibe here feels like you are putting her on a big pedestal and she is some goddess. Just to give you a concrete example. Instead of saying how do you feel about a whatsapp call with a good guy, all you needed to say was "do you have whatsapp". I recommend checking out some of my youtube videos on text game, also go thru some of my LRs where i show you from start to finish examples of messaging girls. Hope that helps.
6 Posts (+3), 5 Cmts (+2)
At this point, is better to move on to another chick since I have put myself in the nice guy frame ? assuming she responds
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
no, it nver hurts to keep trying. Just dont spend a lot of time on it.
6 Posts (+3), 5 Cmts (+2)
thanks