Need advice!

3 Comments
3 Cmts
D

27 Posts (+2)

37 Cmts (+2)

D

27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)

I don't know what direction to take this conversation. The girl looks Filipina so I was going to make an assumption about that. But she's talking about her crazy dog and I thought I'd flirt with that. What do I do?!

Also she's under 21 so not of legal drinking age

0
avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

"Ah. like her owner ;)"

As a side note, you gotta take it easy on the cold reading. You're literally cold reading a dog. More of a good thing isn't actually better. In fact, in this situation it's worse

1
Sam Miller Avatar

8 Posts (+10), 580 Cmts (+268)

Your opener is way to long, luckily she seems very interested and invested. One thing I'm noticing is you're also way too platonic in the way you text, it comes off very friendly and nice guy. 95% of girls don't want a nice guy. Next time, when you say you noticed something and she asks what, tell her you think she's your type and you can flirt from there.

As for right now, I would go with "Perfect, we'll let them get to know each other while we do our thing on our date;)" or you could go with "Cute, how's your week been so far?" and try to build up another thread to banter -> sexualize etc.

Hope this helps. Goodluck bro

1
D

27 Posts (+2), 37 Cmts (+2)

Damn. You replied right after I sent my message. I'll see what happens though.

I guessed that she was Filipino.

Also, being that I have a "nice guy nerdy" look to my profile, I find it hard to sexualize and flirt in a conversation, so I have to fall back on being a friend, even though I don't want to. I think the girls won't be receptive to the sexual flirting. It's never worked for me.

0
Playing With Fire Logo