Well in this one you just had to respect "stanger danger" alot more, and make sure she knows you care about her being comfortable. When a girls doesn't want to go to your place, you can safely assume she also doesn't want to get in your car (imo), and its kinda odd you want her to come to your place and then drive from there, either go and pick her op at her place or tell her to meet you there
So if she is saying things like "stranger danger" and stuff, you need to go "You can meet me here and I can drive us if you are cool with that, or we can just meet at the bar" if that makes sense
I actually have an update.. this is live btw lol dont know how to answer her not right now.. my thought was to have her park her invite her in for a sec while grab something. So she was used to the idea of being in my house then leave...
Unfortunately you got sloppy on how you carried the whole conversation once she was down to get wine and then began to further dig yourself a whole more and more.
I'm not sure how you get out of this. When you replied back with "Hey thanks for reminding..." you could have saved yourself but you just made it worse lol.
And then with the last message "how I'd handle you" ... you already gave her creeper vibes and didn't respect her safety so I don't think she's even considering anything were you two would be alone lol
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Well in this one you just had to respect "stanger danger" alot more, and make sure she knows you care about her being comfortable. When a girls doesn't want to go to your place, you can safely assume she also doesn't want to get in your car (imo), and its kinda odd you want her to come to your place and then drive from there, either go and pick her op at her place or tell her to meet you there
So if she is saying things like "stranger danger" and stuff, you need to go "You can meet me here and I can drive us if you are cool with that, or we can just meet at the bar" if that makes sense
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I actually have an update.. this is live btw lol dont know how to answer her not right now.. my thought was to have her park her invite her in for a sec while grab something. So she was used to the idea of being in my house then leave...
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Unfortunately you got sloppy on how you carried the whole conversation once she was down to get wine and then began to further dig yourself a whole more and more.
I'm not sure how you get out of this. When you replied back with "Hey thanks for reminding..." you could have saved yourself but you just made it worse lol.
And then with the last message "how I'd handle you" ... you already gave her creeper vibes and didn't respect her safety so I don't think she's even considering anything were you two would be alone lol
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Yeah I agree. I would let them reach on their own and wouldn't even offer my car option