Messaging Chinese girls
5 Posts (+10), 19 Cmts (+7)
I'd love to be able to apply some of the techniques from the product but I always feel a bit lost with Chinese ladies. Maybe my profile isn't high value enough?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
with FOB Asians you have to radically change your approach . Basically, keep it as simple as possible. No sarcasm. No witticisms. Nothing that can be misinterpreted (this includes the "Trouble" opener). And nothing explicitly sexual.
The optimal strategy is to do a lot of subtle DHVs (don't outright brag but lead her to believe you are insanely high value) , basic humor (but absolutely no sarcasm) , and set up the meet up in a very logistically favorable way * either your place or a bar near your place). Save the sexual escalation for when you are in person.
16 Posts (+10), 56 Cmts (+17)
I agree, I've used hey trouble on quite a few FOB asian chicks and felt like it didn't do anything for me because of the language barrier... they take everything literally. You can't be sarcastic with them
I've blown myself out with at least 3 different girls when I also invited her over and said "Just promise you won't steal anyhing" and she got mad at me so i completely stop saying things like that. Check out the screenshot
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15 Posts (+31), 492 Cmts (+149)
You're not going to get anywhere with the witty replies. These girls don't speak English, either keep it simple or 学习中文。
19 Posts (+84), 522 Cmts (+198)
"Yes. Can you please connect me to trouble on line 1?"
5 Posts (+10), 19 Cmts (+7)
Thanks, mate.
Can I ask why you choose this response? To be funny/witty and pushing the interaction forward.
Thanks again.