ok so this girl sent me a like on bumble. i don't get likes that often and thought she was super cute.
got her number off bumble and scheduled a date.
the date went well, i was cool non-needy. told her things like: i'd help you with your car but only if you dont fuck up the date, etc.
we went to have drinks, i even sparked conversation with other cute girls around us as a group.
then we went dancing, im taking some dance classes so it worked great.
we made out on the dance floor and then went back to my place.
we had sex, we were pretty drunk and i think i got too agressive (e.g. not enough romance, power plowing, etc.)
she told me i didn't do anything wrong but she didn't like we had sex on the first date because she was looking for something more.
and that she didn't just want to be my sex object.
i got sad because i liked her and told her im sorry because i feel i fucked it up.

was able to get a second date over texts. this time we went for dinner.
i was extra nervous and not as cool, because i like her.
she had to go to work so we just made out a little bit and it ended on a semi-good note.

now we have plans for this upcoming wednesday. texted her late saturday, she was probably working and she left me on read.
def want to chat a bit before our date wednesday. i feel like her interest in texting has gone down a bit but i still feel she likes me.

here's the link to the texts: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RGTya4xQurvoPjvNr7C-79jbtJz1ff9E?usp=sharing

any tips appreciated. i like her enough that i'd like her to be my gf tbh. also im 36 and she's 25. dont think she cares much because she messaged me first.