Low Investment responses
Matched with this girl on Tinder. She asked when we could meet up to see if we have chemistry. I asked for her number to set something up. She’s free all this week to hangout but once I got the number I couldn’t really direct the conversation to hard close her. She keeps leaving me in read and seems to be losing interest. FYI she’s on OF. Any suggestions?
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9 Posts (+0), 8 Cmts (+0)
Calm down buddy. Youre giving of the needy vibe. Especially in that second message you sent her. Play it cool and dont compliment her so much. Make it look like youre used to dating hot chicks
39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)
Hey brotha, she's a hottie so well done getting this far. IMO your texts are coming from a lower value place than is ideal. Constantly complimenting her looks or calling her sexy is what every other guy in her phone is doing. Alex has some great videos on frame control. Anyway, how long has it been since she last texted?
24 hours since her last text. I definitely agree with no longer complimenting her looks, especially with her low investment responses. I think I know what video you’re referring to. My plan is to let it sit, wait to see if she opens me up, and try to initiate again in 48 more hours. Just need a little advice on keeping the framework in my advantage.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I wouldn't say she's giving you low investment reponses. She's just responding to the conversation. I would just move things forward and start segueing towards the close
10 Posts (+3), 12 Cmts (+3)
I really like the layout and directness of the texts. I am still struggling with text game, how do i get more free with my words and not over think things?
4 Posts (+1), 7 Cmts (+1)
Waited three days since last text. Hit her with a “hey trouble” and she left me on read. I’m not ready to give up yet since she is my type. Wait another week to respond again with “are you always this talkative”? If that doesn’t work wait two or three weeks and ask “I honestly didn’t take you as the flakey type”. Good strategy?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
yep man go with that