Low investment problems
Matched with her on bumble a few weeks back and she deleted me pretty soon after I tried using "if you're shy I understand" on her, claimed she was busy dealing with work busting her balls.
She then liked my photo on Hinge and I accepted the match, the following convo happened but it's been taking ages to get anywhere, basically a day or two between messages, I managed to get her number and I thought maybe her investment would increase after because lots of girls have their app notifications turned off and only send messages once or twice a day. Everything I've tried to do to build investment hasn't really worked and I don't know what to do to build more. She seems to be a zoomer shitposter type of girl, she's definitely not the classic hot bimbo if that helps and I think she's quite forward about sex on her Bumble one of the prompts was about "thicc girls giving good head"
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I wouldn't call this low investment just yet, you've just got to put in some more work toward her. Set up a concrete date, time and place and then go for there.
Side note, I'd be careful about this girl. She clearly likes to smoke and asked you to send her money. She might be using you for a free smoke but teasing her body so that you'll give her what she wants.
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Yeh I've thought about that possibility, but if I get her out then at the very least It'll help my confidence that my text game is improving, plus Im actually pretty confident in my ability to escalate in person, I run very direct verbal game and I've got a good amount experience, my text game is just shocking