Losing attraction/interest , time for call out ?
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
Hey dudes,
I’m re-posting this. Context: I really vibed with this girl we’ve hooked up at least 4+ been to hotels, etc. Because of Ramadan we were unable to see each other. Fast forward a month and a bit, I reach out to her (that’s where the screen starts) she’s taking forever to reply now... last text was Tuesday after my take away and she still hasn’t replied. Obviously, she’s losing interest, I’m gonna wait until next week to text her. What do you guys suggest “ultimatum: I though you were a cool girl..... but if you’re not into it I will stop trying” or ...(suggestions). Any feedback is always welcomed.
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
Update: she replied back with a meme(see pic)... so now that she replied back I can work with something. My question what to say next: will a “ah she lives” suffice or???
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
I re-engaged with the skeleton meme last Monday. No reply since then... I’m thinking waiting two weeks and hitting her with the “if your not into this..” it’s weird because we had such great chemistry in the previous dates. But like Alex says, keeping that abundance mentality and not an scarcity one helps.



393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Well, part of the problem is your textgame as well unfortunately. In the screenshot you posted, I definitely see your rewarding noncompliance. Meaning she forgot to respond and ultimately gave a short response. And you responded her with a paragraph. The way to respond to her message would have been as short and succinct as her. Because now, she knows that she has you locked down and there is no fear of her losing you (This is all subconscious). In terms of what to do next, I'd probably just send her the skeleton meme after a few days if she doesn't respond. (it's available on our IG)
25 Posts (+8), 75 Cmts (+22)
Thank you Alex! I was thinking the same thing, I wanted to build investment but definitely didn’t work. What would you have said instead ? (For future reference)