Took a girl home after a date and we were making out on my bed after 10 minutes. She's into it, but said:

"I don't know how far I want to go on the first date"

me: "We don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with

We make out for a few more minutes and I get on top of her and her leg starts shaking a lot.

Me: "leg shakes when you're excited eh? That's cute
Her: "no I'm nervous. This is a lot for a first date"

I look at her face and she looks genuinely afraid so I pull back a step and say

"Just let me know if I'm going to fast" She smiles and leg stops shaking. We make out some more and I rub her all over with my hands, neck kiss etc. She let's me suck her tits and seems really into it. I reach down to rub her under her skirt and closes her legs and gives me a firm "No." So I go back a step. Making out, feeling her up, tit sucking.

I go for a different approach and start kissing her thighs. She's into it until I lift up her skirt and she's not wearing panties. I thought for sure since she showed up in a skirt with no panties she would want to bang but she quickly pulls it back down and says: "I think I want to stop." Again she looks scared. So I stop.

She then says: "It's not you. I'm not very experienced and I have a lot of trauma around sex, and this feels like a lot for a first date. I tell her I'm fine with that and we can just chill and watch the show we were watching. She says she has to go soon anyway and "thanks for the good time. I'll text you later."