Kinda wierd text game. Not really sure what you’re trying to do with the last few messages

“Well, he is a good judge of character so if he likes you, that’s definitely a good sign”

Without seeing the exact screenshots it’ll be hard for me to give truly accurate feedback. It sounds like you were a bit too over eager for the meet. Every other text is a soft close attempt. Lots of push, but little pull

For you follow up text just go with “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand”

Hmm maybe. Upload the rest of the screenshots please. I want to see exactly how she replied

Definetly “hey trouble”

There’s nothing majorly wrong with your text game. But it’s just a bit too pushy for my taste. Too much push and not enough pull. For example after she said “yes, I like wine” I’d havd replied. “Good you should come join us for a glass” or after she said “red, if it’s before sex” I would have said “Alright, we’ll get the Pinot noir ready ;)”

Also I would have qualified her a bit more. Like you guys are the ones who are deciding if it’s gonna happen, not her

But all that aside, the most likely scenario is that she just got cold feet. I had this happen a bunch of times when I would try to set up threesomes. It’s just part of the game unfortunately

I don’t really think you did anything wrong man. I personally prefer to make plans over the app before going for the number, but it shouldn’t be a deal breaker.

She might just be all talk

Or she might respond any minute

Give it 24-48 hours and then hit her with “if you’re too nervous, I’d understand”

“Haha oh really”

Swiped right for fitness enthusiasm

"I know you're type. So, we're golden!"

Eh tbh Alissa is kinda gross. But if you like her

“Yes. And if I like you as well...”

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