So I've been seeing and talking to this girl since January, and I think I might've messed up on our 3rd date sadly and don't know where to go from here. Since our 3rd date, her response times have become longer, and sometimes she won't even bother to respond at all. In fact, she didn't even bother responding to my last text message. Just wanted to get your all's advice as to where I should go from here. Should I just give up and move on? Is there something I could say that can salvage our potential relationship?
I was considering sending something like this to gauge how she feels but idk if that would be a good idea. "Listen, I genuinely enjoyed your company the last few dates, but I'm getting the opposite vibe from you. If you don't want to continue, I wish you'd just be up front and communicate that to me instead of leaving me hanging. Thanks." Haven't heard from her since last Monday.
The convo in the screenshots are just after our 3rd date.
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What happened on the 3rd date that made you think you messed up? Frankly you seem over invested while she's not so keen to plan a date, maybe she's really busy idk. I personnally would leave it now and ping her in a few weeks I wouldn't call her out but that's me. Always be ready to move on try not to get attached bro.
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Well what do you think went wrong on 3rd date? And by the ss i dont see any interest drop yet.
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"Don't like being called that?"