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I have argued with a girl with which i was seeing 4-5 times till now, i have had some problems with myself.. like jealousity and not having enough trust in her(especially when she is going out with her friends male and female). After that i tried to contact her on the phone and to explain some things and she told me okay, it's okay. i saw her yeaterday and when i saw her i felt a little distanced from her and she was expecting from me to cuddle her. We couldn't talk because her friends were waiting for her. But, a little thing she said on the phone made me feel a little bad because she told me, my feelings are not the same after this, and she told me that she feels a litle distanced from me. I wanted this girl to be my girlfriend and want yet. Can you guys tell me what can i do in this situation and is it possible to make this girl again to feel the same emotions as before? Thank you a lot guys!
I need a little more context here. Did you fuck this girl? And if so, how long have you been sleeping with her for. Did you guys ever establish that you're officially dating?
In general, neediness is very low value. You need to consciously control your jealous side & don't let it control and ruin situations for you.
I didn't fucked her. We were planing to go on some place and be only by ourselves but before that we argued with each other.. now she tells me that her feelings were not the same as before and she told me that she was feeling a little distanced from me
Bro, if you haven't even slept with this girl yet then your texts are very needy/chody. You are sending "We've been together for two years" style of text to a girl you barely know and haven't fucked. That's problematic for so many reasons. I wouldn't even send something like that to a girl I've been seeing for a year. It just comes across as very low value. And that gets magnified by 100 when you don't know the girl that well. You live, you learn. My advice is to keep this in mind for next time. And with this one, just be chill and don't do any more weird shit. Focus on getting the next hang out and banging her.
