Is smashing on the first date rare for most dates or do most people smash on first date?
I’m asking this question because I’m curious.
I know smashing on the first meet isn’t unusual but what I really mean is, is it common for most girls to be dtf on first date. I go on dates all the time and don’t close on first date most times and then I stop talking to the girl because I learnt game from watching dating coaches on YouTube. And they always talk about closing on first date that when I don’t get laid on first date, I think I’m wasting my time. Like is that normal or is smashing on the first date more common
I guess the real question is are you more likely to smash most girls on the first date or Second and third? Like what is more common.
It feels like an L when I don’t smash first date 😂. I hate going on 2nd and 3rd but maybe that’s the normal so I’m not sure?
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It isn't rare, but also it isn't as common. But trying to smash on the first date is definitely the best strategy. Some girls just require 2-3 dates. Depends on your preference
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It really depends on the person, you are way more likely to smash on the 2nd date if you didn't on the first because the level of comfort is much higher, the main problem with 2nd date is that you won't actually manage to get people out for it, so basically try to smash on the first, but if you don't you're pretty much guaranteed to on the 2nd provided you don't fuck it up
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Honestly that’s a solid answer. I also start to feel like the state I live in most girls are hesitant to smash on first date. Either my game is just Mid level or it’s the state I live in. I would get more 1st date close in like Miami. I’ll try going on more 2nd dates then but keep aiming to smash on 1st instead of ditching the girl most times