• Your messages should never be that much longer than the girl's
• Be implicitly sexual, not explicitly sexual unless she goes there first or you've built up a lot of comfort
• Get her to qualify herself as much as you qualify yourself
• Act interested in her but not down to meet her until she's sold herself to you. Imagine you're a customer and her job is to convince you to 'buy' her

not that... get your mind out of the gutter girl

She doesn’t seem to invested, she’s almost just giving you shit, I think you fucked up when you said “use” her body, girls wanna be attended to and fucked like their special and for the mutuality, not to be used. IMO