Is it possible to have success without escalating?
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So I intentionally don't want to escalate. Why? Because I want to know her better. I've been in many uncomfortable situations in the past, in where I go sexual with random girls. Some have bad hygiene, some get kind of entitled after s*x, etc.
I've been dating, but I feel like escalating is almost essential. My percentage of success seems to be significantly higher when trying to escalate.
What are your thoughts?
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Yea, you 100% have to escalate. Without doing it, the girl starts tto think you're a pussy and loses interest.
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But honestly I don't want to. Maybe just tease her? There needs to be a way to know her better, before getting involved. I just don't want to escalate too fast.
Also sometimes it's more enjoyable to go slowly and form a special connection. I've had sex on first or second date, and many times, the thing just dies. I lose interest.