Is it low value to tell the girl you cheated on your ex?
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My last relationship ended because I cheated on her, the sex was bad so I sorta lost interest and hooked up with new girls behind her back before she found out I brought another girl over and she broke up with me. But I'm thinking I should give a white lie instead because it might make the new girl not trust me and/or insecure about continuing with me.
What would be a high value answer to give for the reason when she asks why your ex broke up with you?
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Of course that's low value, come on. It's adorable you're so het up about telling a white lie now after lying and cheating on your ex... Anywho I'll give you 3 true things to say so you won't have to lie.
Why'd your ex break up with you?
"We weren't compatible in bed... I'm a very sexual person, my ex not so much..." (true)
"You assume she broke up with me... but anyway, a gentleman never tells" (also true)
"She thought I was getting too emotionally involved and it was just too intense for her" (technically true)
"To give you the rare opportunity of dating me... don't waste it!" (filthy false LIES breakup unnecessary you'd be happy seeing both these chicks at once)
Which brings me to the truest wisdom... if you'd been honest about this with your ex, you'd probably be having threesomes now, or an open relationship, although I guess the downside is it could go so wrong that she'd explode and break up with you oh hang on that already happened
Love from Max.
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Don't view it in terms of "high value answer" or a "low value" answer. On one hand, she will not trust you if you say you cheated. But on the other hand, it's always good to be honest. You can keep it honest with something like "Hey. I'll be honest. I did cheat before and the reason was I was a coward for not coming clean about the sex being bad. I wouldn't do it again"