is going for the close at my place a turn off?
i'm probably not screening properly, but i feel like a lot of girls get turned off by the fact i invite them over for a first date. seems like getting that non compliance makes getting a date in public harder because she labels you as a fuckboy. am i wrong? what if i'm missing out on my next girlfriend by going for "the lay" so quick
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I don't think so. Post some screenshot examples of these chicks getting "turned off" and I'll be able to give you a bit more clarification.
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I just made a post about this a week ago. People chimed in and basically said it's a numbers game. I changed my own operations to grabbing a drink near by (i live across the street from a bar). But it does depend on the age of the girl and her pictures on whether I'll invite her over vs grabbing a drink.
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Well said. I too have lost a few girls due to inviting them straight over. They get turned off. For me, one drink at a nearby bar 1st. Then I walk em back to my place
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Inviting them over to your place for wine should always be your first option. However, some girls will just not be down for that & this is how you loose girls who’re subconsciously DTF & give you tons of objections. Perhaps she might’ve had a bad past experience & she has an emotional concern that you need to address first, to make her feel comfortable. Sometimes you’re gonna have to put in a little effort too on your part. Meet at a nearby bar close to you home & then pull her back to your place with some plausible deniability. Once she’s back at your place keep everything chill as possible, strong eye contact, do kino on her (two steps forward one step back,) genuine compliments on something you like about her, throw some light sexual innuendos here & there.