Is a 6/10 bird in hand better than an 8/10 bird in a bush?
29 Posts (+4), 67 Cmts (+22)
My friend Chelsea invited me to a Halloween party at this small town I used to live at. It’s two hours away but I have some girls on my hit list over there so I’m not sure what to do.
My friend Sarah is trying to hook me up with her friend Christina (6/10). Christina even slid in my DMs saying she thinks I’m cute and I told her I’d hit her up next time I’m in town.
I have another girl Dee (6/10) who I went on a date with last year but I drank way too much and was sloppy and she kinda friend zoned me after that. But I been lifting and she slide in my DMs recently and said she’s impressed with how big I got. I told her next time I’m in town we gotta go on another date. She said she can’t wait.
But the girl I really have my eyes on is Chelsea’s friend Ashley (8/10). She’s hot and she’ll be at the party (the other girls might be there too but I’m not sure but it’s a small town). I’m not sure if Ashley likes me though.
Should I ask Chelsea to do some insider questioning and find out if Ashley likes me? Should I just slide in Ashley’s DMs on instagram or will that seem try hard? Should I risk going to the party to try to get with Ashley or better to spend my time with Dee or Christina instead?
Or will this backfire and instead I should save the drive and skip the party all together and go to a nearby club with friends and try to pull there?
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Go to the party, talk to all of them, be the mayor and connect people, introduce them to each other, add value in your conversations, have fun talking with everyone via a giving sharing vibe and self amusing, then later you can invest with one girl you're vibing with and hook up with her..
Brent Smith has some good older content on this if you can find it. Also Julien has awesome stuff on this as well.
29 Posts (+4), 67 Cmts (+22)
Okay I like that. The popularity would make me more attractive anyway. Idk why I’m worried about the other girls getting upset with me if they see me vibing with someone else when I promised them we’d go out when I'm in town again.
Ultimately I have the free will to sleep with who I want. I guess this is a good problem to have lol. Abundance mindset in full effect. I just don’t wanna vibe with the wrong girl and blow it with the other girls and walk away empty handed but I feel like I have enough game to pull it off with someone at least.
I’ll check out Brent Smith and Julien. Never heard of those guys. Thanks.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I would just ask Chelsey if ashley thinks you're cute and shoot your shot at the party. If not, keep the other ones as backup
32 Posts (+21), 576 Cmts (+276)
man, just number close all of them and setup dates imo, hottest one first, If one of the girls catches on, that will only make her want you more lol
29 Posts (+4), 67 Cmts (+22)
You think they’ll want me more instead of get upset I slept with their friends before them?
Also I already got the numbers for both 6/10 girls. The 8/10 girl I only have her Snapchat and instagram. But all 3 girls live 2 hours away in the same town and I really don’t want to seem tryhard by driving that far for pussy. This party was my opportunity to find an excuse to go out that way and visit them lol