Inviting straight over
4 Posts (+4), 36 Cmts (+5)
Does anyone feel like they're throwing a decent amount of pussy away by inviting women straight over? Like... you could have pulled these girls by the 1st or 2nd real date, but they are scared off by the obvious fuck-boy move of being invited straight over?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I thought about that, but no. While their is a good amount of girls that will not come over on the first date only, really only the really triggered ones or the prudes will let that be a deal breaker if you then offer to meet her in public.
24 Posts (+193), 234 Cmts (+299)
Most definitely. Some girls have underlying Emotional Concerns as to why they’re not going straight to a strangers house right away. This is when you have to agree to the general idea of meeting at a near by bar close to your home as an Objection on her part. Then pulling her back to your place once you feel she’s comfortable. I’ve done this mistake many times as letting my ego get in my way & have lost a lot of opportunities.
4 Posts (+4), 36 Cmts (+5)
I do the "near-by bar" when I get the objection, but I'm definitely looked at differently afterwards because they know I do it with every girl and it's not easy to justify. And if they really get turned off by the invite, I never hear from them again.. Frustrating because I'm usually having good investment text game before I soft close with that and I know I could have fucked the chick by the 1st 2nd or 3rd date
24 Posts (+193), 234 Cmts (+299)
In my understanding, if you think you could’ve fucked the girl by the 1st date (which should always be your first choice) or second date. Then you would’ve have fucked her bro. There must be something you’re doing that turns off the women when you invite them back over to your place. Are you creating rapport with her? Are you asking things like what she likes to do for fun? A good question I’ve asked in public dates is “what’s something unique & exciting about yourself?” Are you doing kino on her? Are you taking two steps forward one step back? Or are you just rushing the interaction just because you have no emotional self control & want to fuck her already at you place. Also you need to be gauging a women’s buying temperature, & be good on reading up on positive body language. But it all really comes down to experience to the point it becomes second nature to you.
13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)
Don't be the chump who wines and dines a girl who went straight over to another dude’s place the week before!
Pitch the date at your place.
Of the girls who've gone straight to a guy's place at least once before:
Of the of girls who've never gone straight to a guy's place at least once before:
4 Posts (+4), 36 Cmts (+5)
I shouldn't have said "real date", I should have said grabbing a drink at a bar. I live across the street from a decent bar so it's not even a hassle to pull them back. I'll admit my logistics are great. I'm aware of the reality of being a chump while another guy gets the shit for free. I'm at a point where all my women are sexy as all hell so why risk scaring them off when we can grab a drink in public across the street so I can also DHV myself AND invite them back? I believe in my abilities on a date (grabbing a drink) more than the success rate of the invite over.
Ps.. My method depends on the age of the girl, I'm inviting an 18yo straight over, no date (grabbing a drink/coffee)