(Instagram) How should I go about this now?
I slid in this girls dms and she seems to be interested but she says she’s not free for another week. I’m trying smash not going to lie. How should proceed and not lose interest? @avilench .
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Also trying cold dm on insta, can you say what openers work best for you?
- [ ] You've got me wondering if you're a sweet angel or a rebellious bad girl.
- [ ] I can’t tell if you’re innocent or an absolute baddie
- [ ] You look suspiciously innocent
- [ ] You're making me question if you're a saint or a sinner.
- [ ] I can't decide if you're pure as snow or bad as hell but I’m willing to find out.
- [ ] You’re giving me those good girl with a wild side vibes, and I’m trying to test my hypothesis
- [ ] You’ve got me wondering if you’re the type of girl who can go from sweet to spicy in a matter of seconds
They come off a bit unsocial / too forward. I always get laughed at when I use those lines, especially if it’s girl at my uni.
So I take you use the good girl/bad girl roleplay dynamic after saying these openers?
What kind of girls are you DMing btw? Are they completely cold? What is your strategy? I follow my uni’s meme pages and follow girls who like the memes. And have my uni in my bio.
But looking to expand my strategy. I also have no idea how to get those girls with 10k+ plus followers. I have 1.6k atm.
Open to discuss more if you want
Also, I would say something non needy or pushy.
“No worries, are you a red white or rose kinda girl btw?”
Keep it on the topic of a date, and flirt more with stuff like “I promise to make it a night to remember” - to build anticipation ect.
Then after a few more flirty exchanges go for the hard close again, try asking for her schedule to avoid suggesting days she’s busy
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