In a weird situation, what do I say to her dom to let me bang her?
This is pretty weird not gonna lie. So she said she is a sub and is on Bumble looking for fun hookups but she has a dom and she is his so I gotta get his permission first as to why he should let me fuck her. I don't get this whole dom/sub thing nor do I care, I just wanna bang her. What should I say to her dom?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
this is wild situation, could potentially be some gay guy ploy to get nudes from you, however it could be exactly what it appears to be, one thing ill tell you right off the bat is that your texting is way to passive for a sub you wanna text girls like this with a lot more assertiveness, no asking permission and what not, chicks like this respond to dominance
You're right it could be, but maybe it's real as she just told me she and him have done kinky stuff with girls in the past and also guys but the guys weren't that great of fucks. And yes I dont like that my texting is like that, im still new to the whole texting girls thing (grew up in a religious household) so im shy around girls that's why I'm not too confident when it comes to texting and overthink a lot. Do you have any videos on talking with more assertiveness? Thanks for the feedback!
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yes, I believe we have a video called "How to be dominant over text". Also, just go through some of the love reports I posted that should give you a feel for the vibe
39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)
hahahahahahaha dude, you have to update
So the dom said I can come over to fuck her but I just didn't feel comfortable with the whole situation. Plus like the other dudes said in the thread it's low value AF, and you're basically cucking yourself to bang the girl. I unmatched her. Could've slept with 2 girls this week but nope lol. Kinda happy it didn't happen, got a lot of work to do for my college classes
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Needing to ask his permission to have sex with his girl makes you his sub too
Very strange low value situation to put yourself into, of all the girls on the internet you choose invest in the one that asks you to cuck yourself to sleep with her
40 Posts (+34), 104 Cmts (+53)
You'd totally enter the seller frame if you carried on. Having to qualify yourself regarding why you should fuck her is just low value and try hard imo.
I would flip the frame.
"Sounds like you need a new dom ;-)
If not I'd just drop it.
17 Posts (+7), 63 Cmts (+9)
Damn I should've sent that to her, I instead sent her "Yea no problem that he'll be there, sure what's his snap?" And yea you're definitely right it is low value.
Should I still send her the "sounds like you need a new dom" line?
40 Posts (+34), 104 Cmts (+53)
Honestly I think you’re too far gone at this point. Did she respond to that?
I’d just leave if if I were you but if you do wanna fuck her that bad, see how it goes talking to the other dude. But trust me man you’re not setting yourself up nicely by doing so.