you may want to remove her full name asap so some troll doesn't fuck you over for a start.

Feedback on your convo. I will be direct but don't take it in a harsh way since you're new. everyone had to start somewhere.

let's start with don't tell her you got banned on bumble. Just tell her you deleted it and forgot to grab her number. You could have just said you're a busy guy and it was getting overwhelming trying to keep up with everyone (girls won't know if that's true or not because that is what it is like for them a lot and they get online dating fatigue). Or you could have said the app glitched and you lost her. That would have been the most optimal.

Next don't ask her do she wants to move to text so early. I know you had a weird situation but treat it as if you were on Bumble still and nothing changed. Your number close should work the same. I 1000% would not have said the next statement about reliant on technology and the ban. Move on, you want to draw as little attention to it as possible. You again make a comment about relying on apps. That is a super low value comment. Don't stay stuff like that again. How does it help you move forward? You just also don't sound like you have a lot going on even though you say you're busy. The busiest guys I know also find time to make their schedule work for social lives. I would suggest you just avoid all of this. Or say I am busy but I make time for the people that are important to me stuff like that.

The picture line is bad too and the IG thing was cringe. Honestly man you need to watch a lot more of alex's content. This is like really bad.

Start with this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8R_BIDyCoRM

Then watch these https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LW9MhiJ61b8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lD0ljTE4qAw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foklURMu4Rg

watch as much of alex's content as you can.

The biggest things you do wrong are being too much of a provider frame and not doing a soft close or moving her towards a date. You just ask her a bunch of stuff until she gets bored.

This is waayyyyy too much texting man. You forgot the rule I teach. "Keeping it simple". By talking sooo much before even meeting, it takes away the mystery and you have more room to fuck up. You basically became her textbuddy and she got bored eventually with all this back and forth and not moving forward

You guys are pen pals. There were a bunch of places to try and close a date. This one is likely done brotha, but if she responds, please post. And for God's sake, make a date!

Bump

You talked yourself right into the friend zone, the conversation between the two of you was very long, drawn out and boring, you never made your intentions clear with her .You asked her if she was too shy to meet you, she said no, you should have went for the soft close right after there , instead you started into a different conversation about religion, how she hates Jesus ,and you meeting someone at church, none of those were good texts.