“If I’m too tired would you be upset if we took a rain check?”
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
Check in later today or re-engage a few days later. If it’s the former how do I go about doing that?
View my previous post for a bit of 1st date detail.
Thanks!
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4 Posts (+2), 49 Cmts (+26)
Did you escalate on the date at all? she may have reservations about coming to your place so she gave herself an open plausible excuse
I think it would have been best to say "How about 7pm is that past your bedtime" and get to the bottom of her objections and solve them
I guess it's pushing it to salvage the date tonight and I don't know what would be optimal to do that now
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
Just light touching here & there (moving her by her back to guide her, 3s full hugs, etc).
I tossed out this cooking idea at my place idea while we’re on the way to her car (I had to go to work soon) & said she was down & offered Saturday (today).
One of her jobs is being an on call nurse/caregiver (I know this is true because while I was making my order later in the date she checked her phone & let me know her boss called her).
I ended up texting her this. This cool? If not, how long should I wait before re-engaging assuming she doesn’t respond
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9 Posts (+0), 8 Cmts (+0)
Bro move on. You guys need to stop giving attention to women with low interest. You look way to eager and that makes you look like you dont have any options. If she really wanted to see you. She would make her way to you even if she worked the whole day. Trust me, if she texts you back with the day shes free go ahead and set the date. If shes wishy washy about it just forget her becuase shes gonna keep dicking you around at that point
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
i would wait a few days and then reengage with a meme or greeting then after getting the convo going, go for the meetup. On a side note wen she asked to rescheudeld you should have set up the date right then and there, I would have texted her something like its cool. Hows xx or xx night instead
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
Same approach even though I did this awhile ago?
“Still down to cook? Or shall we find a day that you know you won't be rushed, & meet then ;)”
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yeah man. That was a bad follow up text. I would have just gotten the conversation started and then closed the same way I always do. Check out the video I have on 5 steps to setting up a date