I thought she was raped
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Cole approach I met at a restaurant. I thought she was eluding to that she has been raped or sexually abused, but perhaps I misunderstood, but could use help with recovery ideas, any suggestions?
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Not sure how you could recover from this but I wouldn’t stress it if I were you I wouldn’t even bother with this chick cause she might “ me too” you.
Pussy isn’t worth going to jail over lol.
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Or is just not in a mindset where shes looking for sex
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I could see that but for context there was a strong flirty vibe at the restaurant, but that’s not to say she isn’t a time waster or not dtf, that’s possible
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oh man this terrible no offense, way tooo overly gamey she was interested initially, all you needed to do was just move things towards the meetup at that point, this convo wound up taking a wreird turn and now your in a weird spot that I am not sure how to get out of, I do recommend taking a look at my video how to text cold approach numbers for guidance on what to do for the future
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Clinton, bro! The issue is NOT that this person hates sex lol. The issue is with the frames. Take a look at the “humpday” innuendo that they picked up on lol. This is a Latina. Texting them like you’re their best friend will predictably get you to where you’re dealing with a BS “I hate sex” excuse.
Just restart the interaction and show authority/dominance.
A restart looks like this : “Oh wait. I just realized something...”
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Also, what is it I just realized once she asks? Lol
118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
Could I try “oh wait, I just realized something”
Her response
“Sounds like you’ve never had good sex with a real man ?”
118 Posts (+42), 716 Cmts (+312)
Thanks for the feedback, I still really need to grow in the framing/ dom/sub categories of sex and communication, I know I’m losing out and missing out on some of these girls because looks aren’t their main attraction, masculine frames are. Still working on that, what are some good feelers you throw out to measure their awareness of dom/sub roles or to see if they are submissive types? Any tips on videos or parts of PWF product I can go back over to better understand?
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One thing I would do is indirectly frame them as “sub”.
Example: “I know a feisty Latina when I see one” or “I love Latinas! They’re feisty but oh so sweet for the right type of confident, assertive, Dominant man who knows how and when to take control so she knows she’s in good hands!” Orrr “I love Latinas! They’re feisty but that’s because they have this amazing sexual energy that guys nowadays don’t understand and can’t handle!” Orr “I love Latinas! They have most of my Weaknesses...”