I think my gf is talking to someone else
27 Posts (+0), 31 Cmts (+2)
So my gf had a birthday the other day and she posted a pic with her family and in the pic you see people commenting happy birthday
And she posted all the people that came to see her and in her post a guy says "I love you happy birthday baby heart emoji"
And she says "thank you so much for you and your daughter to come and see me and all the gifts I love you very much "
And the guy puts "I love you more"
I looked at the guys page seems like around my age 30 ish"
I confronted her about it and she said what guy are you talking about my son that was in the video she pans the camera to her whole family
And says there was no other guy then I say the guys name and she said its her cousin then I say that's not your cousin just to see her bluff and she says that it's a family friend that she watches his daughter
it just doesn't sit well with me she takes forever to reply and I saw she even like replied to his timeline about a video it could be a cousin
But I feel it's not and she tried to twist things on me about that I talk to other girls which is a red flag all around now she's saying that she can't go out as much because of imagration
Which is true and her family are Immigrants and so is she so her dad just got out of surgery and the mom has surgery this week she said she'll be busy taking care of both of them while trying to work at night I do believe that part
And shes told me that this whole situation brings her alot of stress which I understand she's juggling a job trying to help pay her families rent while caring for them while ice is in the area
But I don't know am I wrong for pressing her about this I don't know what I should do I kinda just want to keep her around for sex she's a really good person but I just don't like the not texting back for a long ass time
Days or even a week which is showing low interest already sometimes she'll just read my message which I don't want to loose more dignity that I have because honestly I think I
just wanna go travel to Thailand and Brazil and just forget about her but I do care and love her what should I do in this situation
399 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.4K)
Oh man, that's a doozy. It just comes ddown to trust. For instance, if this happenedd with my gf, i would def ask her about it, but if she told me what yours told you, id believe her cause we've been together for 5 years and there's massive trust
I can;t really tell you what to do here. But id start with asking yourself this question, have you ever caught her in a lie? Also, in terms of not responding this wouldd be a direct convo id have wwith her, but she might be givving you everything she can at the moment and then you have to decide wwhether the pros about this relationship outwiegh the cons
27 Posts (+0), 31 Cmts (+2)
I don't know bro I started going deeper into her Facebook posts and the guy likes almost ever single post and I see one post that says
"ANSWER THE PHONE" in all caps and she has a emoji blowing kisses
And I see another post that I think it was a song etc and the song says "marry that man" and I click on the comments the dude commented again "happy anniversary I love you with all my heart " heart emoji
And that was over a year ago
Then she replies "it's been a year now thank you for being by my side for the good and bad times I've been through "
heart emoji heart with cupid emoji
And then I start talking her about it and I bring it up like I already know you're talking to someone else etc like just be honest with me
"Then she text me I'm sorry Isaac right now I honestly can't be in a relationship" she brought up some stuff that I was talking to other girls before and she doesn't like the way that I looked at other girls etc just trying to make an excuse but still not being honest
So she's been seeing this person since Aug 2024 we got together March 2023
I told her I can't be with someone that's seeing other people tbh id just wanna bang her again shed let me but I really cared about her alot man like I would've married he
r and glad I didn't I basically found all this out like a few hours after that post she put anf another red flag she took the post down right after I confronted her about it birthday pics really expose alot
Now I just wanna focus on myself and business and fuckin move to Thailand/Brazil I'm kinda happy and sad I found out she still doesn't want to admit it tho it's insane
even with proof women have an evil thing about not admitting to when there's facts I'm not even getting mad at her just a little hurt
399 Posts (+1.3K), 16K Cmts (+5.4K)
sorry to hear bro, youll meet a better girl. Its only a matter of ttime